A comprehensive list of abbreviations for activities provided by sex workers, but also in common use between partners. How many have you enjoyed?
| Abbreviation | Description |
|---|---|
| 69 | A position where the sexual partners lay head to toe and perform oral sex on each other. |
| A-Level | Anal sex (more commonly known as Greek Sex) |
| ATM | Ass to Mouth – anal sex followed immediately by oral |
| AR | Anal rimming – licking the anal region |
| BB | Bare-Back sex – vaginal or anal sex without a condom |
| BBBJ | Bare-back Blow Job – oral sex without a condom |
| BBBJTC | Bare-back Jlow Job to completion |
| BBW | Big Beautiful Woman – refers to women who are voluptuous or curvaceous |
| B & D | Bondage and Discipline – Use of restraints and punishment or threats |
| BDSM | Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Sadism, Submission, Masochism |
| Bondage | Involves restraining or tying up a partner |
| BJ | Blow Job – oral sex on a penis; aka fellatio |
| BJTC | Blow Job to Completion – giving oral sex until the partner ejaculates |
| BLS | Ball Licking and Sucking |
| BS | Body Slide – Usually the woman slides her often oiled naked body over the man, but could be any permutation. |
| CBJ | Covered Blow Job – oral sex with a condom |
| CBT | Cock and Ball Torture – a BDSM sexual activity that involves torture or inflicting pain on genitals |
| CD | Cross Dressing – dressing as a different gender |
| CIM | Cum in Mouth – Ejaculation in the partner’s mouth without a condom |
| CIMWS | Cum in Mouth with swallowing |
| COF / COB | Cum on Face / Cum on Breasts / Cum on Body |
| DATY | Dining at the ‘Y’ – oral sex on a woman, aka cunnilingus |
| DATO | See ‘rimming’ |
| DP | Double Penetration, either penetrating two orifices at once which may include two people, or penetra |
| DDP | Double Digit Penetration, one finger in vagina, the other in anus |
| DFK | Deep french kissing, passionate kissing with tongues |
| DT | Deep throat, taking the entire length of a penis in one’s mouth during oral sex |
| Facial | Ejaculating on a face (COF). |
| FE | Female ejaculation, also known as squirting or g-spot ejaculation. The ejaculation of fluid from the vagina |
| Filming | Filming or recording of a sexual act |
| Fire and ice | Refers to applying hot and cold sensations, either directly to the genitals or via the mouth during oral |
| Fisting | Penetration of a whole hand inside the vagina or anus |
| FK | French Kissing |
| Foot Fetish | A sexual desire and gratification focused on feet or shoes, may involve a foot job or kissing / sniffing. |
| Foot Job | Similar to a hand job but performed with feet |
| French | Oral sex |
| FS | Full service – usually just means ‘intercourse’ |
| Gagging | Gagging or choking on an erect penis or sometimes fingers |
| GFE | Girlfriend experience – a degree of intimacy like with a girlfriend; sensual, friendly, cuddly, kissing. |
| Greek | Anal sex |
| GS | Golden shower, urinating on body or in mouth |
| Happy Ending | Hand Job leading to orgasm / ejaculation |
| HJ | Hand Job, hand relief – using the hand to masturbate the partner |
| Italian | Rubbing penis between buttocks |
| LK | Light Kissing |
| MILF | Mother I’d Like to Fuck. Describes a sexually attractive woman, usually several years older |
| MFF | Male Female Female – a threesome involving one male and two females |
| MMF | Male Male Female – a threesome involving two males and one female |
| Mutual French | Both parties give and reciprocate oral sex. If done at the same time is called ‘69’ |
| Mutual Natural French | Both parties give and receive unprotected oral sex – aka 69 |
| MSOG | Multiple shots on goal refers to a client being allowed to ejaculate onto the provider multiple times. |
| NSA | No Strings Attached – not a serious relationship, just a hook-up |
| OWO | Oral WithOut – a blow job without a condom |
| Pegging | Using a strap on dildo to have anal sex with a partner |
| PSE | Porn star experience, a sexual encounter that mimics the variety of positions and acts depicted in pornography |
| R&T | Rub and Tug, massage with hand relief. Usually applied to a service available in massage parlours |
| Rimming | Licking around the the anus |
| Russian | Rubbing the penis between breasts, sometimes until climax (also known as Spanish) |
| Snowballing | The transfer of ejaculate from one person’s mouth to another |
| Spanish | Akak Russion, involves thrusting the the penis between breasts, usually until ejaculation. |
| Squirting | Also known as female ejaculation or g-spot ejaculation. Some women can produce significant discharge, others none. |
| Strap on | Wearing a dildo on a harness, a female penetrates their partner anally or vaginally (or orally!). The act is referred to as pegging. |
| Strip Tease | An erotic dance where the service provider undresses for the client with sensual movements. |
| Tea agging | Placing balls in the mouth or on the face of a partner |
| Toy Show | A masturbation show using sex toys including vibrators |
| Tromboning | The giver kneels behind the receiver and licks their anus while stroking the receiver’s cock. |
| TTM | Testicular Tongue Massage |
| Water Sports | Aka a Golden Shower, but also can involve many sexual activities involving urine |